Tips for Your First Date with a Girl

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Published: 2009/02/12 - Updated: 2022/01/12
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Synopsis: Information including hints and tips on things to do, and not to do, on your first date with a girl. Try to not to bring your problems and complaints into to the date. Have a fun, upbeat personality that she will be attracted to. You must make her feel good. This is not an interview or a mission you're on... it's a date. It is important when you listen that you remember what she is telling you... that way if she asks you about it later you can recall it with ease. Girls sometimes purposely do this to see if you are paying attention.


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So you successfully got a gorgeous girls phone number and it's time for you to go on the first date? Are you feeling nervous? Don't worry, guys. That's perfectly normal.

The fact of the matter is that we all get nervous at some point. It's not whether or not you get nerves; it's how you handle those nerves.

When you are on a date with a girl you hardly know it's always best to move at a nice pace and not force anything. There will be many openings throughout the night (if she likes you that is). Signals and positive body languages will permeate her soft skin. So you will know if she wants you to take a step further (inviting you in) or stay at bay (telling you to stay back).

How Do You Know She is Having a Good Time?

The first date is the most important date because it sets the tone.

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A man in jeans and casual dress and a woman in a green top and blue skirt holding both hands on their first date together.
A man in jeans and casual dress and a woman in a green top and blue skirt holding both hands on their first date together.

I Feel the Sexual Tension... Now What?

If you have a great date, sometimes you feel sexual tension slowly building up but you are not sure if and when it would be appropriate to act on it. In most cases, guys screw things up by trying to move too fast - completely turning off the woman whom they are with. When you feel sexual vibes, you have to know when to strike and when to hold back.

Now every man's situation is unique because the woman he is with will react differently to certain actions. With that being said, seduction is something you will need to master in order to have a successful date.

Towards the End of the Date

If you are at the end of the date and you still don't know what to do (go for it or keep it cool), the easiest way to go about doing things is to do what comes naturally. What I do when I'm on a date is read her body language. If she laughs with me, gazes into my eyes when I speak, or touches my leg when she talks, I know those are all open invitations.

So look out for these clear-cut signals.

Make Her Feel Right at Home

Make sure she feels at ease no matter where she is. So if you are taking her back to your place, (please make sure it's clean and smells good), just relax and do what you have been doing all evening... be your confident self. Women love confidence. And women love to feel safe and protected.

No Interruptions

Making the First Move

So the mood is set and you still don't know if you should make the first move both of you are extremely nervous. Since you are the man, and you feel the vibe, it's time to make the first move. Don't be shy. Slowly lean in for the kiss (don't ask her "can I kiss you..." just do it). Don't worry about whether she likes you or not. Remember, she would not be with you in your room (or at her place) if she did not like you.

Don't rush and shove your tongue down her throat, though. Take it slow; the kissing is vital. If you feel that the moment is right and things are heating up, you can then slowly begin to undress each other at a similar pace. This is where all your foreplay skills will rear its head.

Last Thoughts

It makes no sense to get a girl's number just to get stuck on the date.

These are all questions that a confident man can answer YES! to. The question is, are you this confident? Obviously there is much more to learn when it comes to the dating game. This was merely a checklist of things you should do to make the first date "a hit"... literally.

Haven't got a date yet? Try these local dating services to find single women and men near you.


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